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In case you feel all alone, or you're just feeling incredibly clueless
- here's some mom-to-mom advice that may or may not help, but lets you know we
all struggle with the same crosses and all serve the same Christ who is King of
Kings and Lord of Lords (even when he was a naked baby.)

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Advice for a
new homeschooler, or any homeschooler beginning a new year or turning over
a new leaf. - Ursula Rost
 | KEEP IT
SIMPLE. Work your way into a schedule. Just because you've
got all your books doesn't mean you or your kids know how you're going
to use them (daily/weekly/does it involve experiments or
supplemental activities/can my kid essentially do this on
their own, with me checking and correcting as needed, or do we set
aside one-on-one time to do it together orally)
Start your kids with the basics, adding an activity every day or so.
Have them start with the cut and dry stuff, like a math workbook or
penmanship workbook, while you figure out how to spread 17 science
chapters over the year or make a geography unit study work for three
kids at once. After a couple of weeks, fine tune what gets
done which day of the week for how long/much. Kids actually love
order. Even the younger ones will soon know, for example, that
they do math and language every day, history and science on alternate
days, Monday is piano lesson day, Tuesday is art projects and karate,
Wednesday is choir night, Thursday is cleanup day and Friday is a
shorter day with Mass and fieldtrips. Or whatever. |
 | IF YOU
FLOUNDER. Illness, new baby, move, kid encountering difficulties
(behavioral, academic, etc), or just falling hopelessly behind.
If necessary, impose a recess for a few weeks. See this as an
opportunity rather than a hardship--for lots of reading and crafts,
letting the kids construct a huge megalopolis using every Lego, block,
Lincoln Log etc. in the house, until the crisis passes. Or, if
you are able to do some school, strip it down to the bare basics.
Each kid does math and language for their level, and pick middle grade
texts you can read aloud to all your kids at once as you are able to for
subjects like religion, science, health, history etc. You'll
find yourself stopping to explain key points in simple language to
the younger ones, who'll be happy to cuddle, color, play quietly on
the floor, and ask cute questions. The older ones can doodle or
crochet or fold laundry while being read to, or help present the
material. To satisfy their (older kids') need to go further
in depth with these subjects, let them surf on the internet with a
particular assignment, watch related videos/DVD documentaries from
library, and read related fiction. Once you're past your rough
patch, just add stuff back in gradually. |
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 | This is the unsolicited advice - Jenn
MacDonald
 | One of my biggest struggles is keeping the
baby out of the toilet while I'm paying attention to the the other
kids. When I teach, my mind just isn't able to observe the big
picture. What helped us, was all 5 of us locking ourselves in a
bedroom (because of the lock on the door) and doing school in there.
It's very confining for me and the noise level drives me insane, but those
things don't seem to bother the kids. I come out exhausted a few hours
later, but school has gotten accomplished and I don't have any HUGE messes
or accidents to deal
with. |
 | The above worked when I had a toddler and a
crawler. A few years later, we all just sprawl out everywhere in
the house to do our school - the kids usually prefer the floor.
The kids who can read use a student planner and choose when do which
subjects on their own. They come find me to ask questions and for
subjects we all do together, like religion and history. |
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